PRIDE Guide

🐂If this is your 1st Pride Month in the Bull City, you’re in for a faBULLous treat! It’s a delightfully big gay lovepalooza! Here’s how to enjoy it to the max!

  1. Read through this Pride Guide and go to local pride events all over the triangle.
  2. Donate to our local LGBTQ Centers so they can continue to provide resources to our community.
  3. If you’re not a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, commit to learning something new each day.
  4. Spend your bucks in the Bull with local businesses who support love!

Most importantly: Enjoy. Love. And be gay.

We have two incrediBULL ways for you to enjoy this guide:

  1. Click on the fullscreen arrows BULLow to view the stunning, digital PRIDE magazine below.
  2. Scroll by the magazine and check out the blog version, complete with hyperlinks to each business website and social media so you can support the businesses IRL.

Quick note 📝 : When you see a super cute Bull Emoji 🐂 next to a business’s name, we’re proud to say they’re a BULLish Market Member. They BULLieve the best way to do business is in a way where everyone wins. The BULLish Market Membership connects small businesses in the Triangle to each other, opportunities, and our BULLoved audience for only $49 a month.

PRIDE Events In The Triangle

June 9th

House of Her : All Girls Pride Party

This is Ladies night so let’s kick off pride and celebrate. Pull up with your Girls, Bae, College experience , or even your 5 year roommate you introduced to family for all I care. OH and one more thing…NO BOYS ALLOWED

Date: Friday, June 9th 10pm-2am

Location: The Fruit 305 South Dillard Street Durham

June 10th

🐂DIY & Drag Fundraiser

Our BULLish Market Member, Nailed IT DIY Studio is hosting a DIY & Drag Fundraiser where 20% of the sales of this family-friendly event will be donated to the LGBTQ Center of Durham. Pick your project and join them for a fun afternoon with the House of Springs Drag Queens.

Date: Saturday, June 10th 5pm-7pm

Location: Nailed It DIY Studio Durham 5410 NC Highway 55 Durham

Pride at Hi-Wire Brewing Durham

Hi-Wire Brewing is hosting an all day event with vendor pop-up market from 12-5pm and a drag show featuring Chloe Cassidy from 7pm-9pm. Buy your ticket on their website today to guarantee a seat during the drag show.

Date: Saturday, June 10th 12pm-9pm

Location: Hi-Wire Brewing Durham 800 Taylor St, #9-150 Durham

Geek and Grub Market (Love & Rainbow Edition)

A Come Out and join us for 40+ Geeky Vendors, Yummy Food, Giant Games and fun competitions! Please note that this event if for Mature Audiences only after 8pm.

Date: Saturday, June 10th 6pm -10pm

Location: Mordecai Historical Park 1 Mimosa Street Raleigh

Art with Andi: Pride-Themed Double-Header Soiree

Join Raleigh Pride and CAM Raleigh for a special conversation discussing the history of Queer nightlife spaces in Raleigh. Hear from local DJs and event producers on why these spaces need to be preserved.

Date: Saturday, June 10th 4pm-8pm

Location: 1:11 Art and Healing Space 3409 University Dr Durham

Free PRIDE Intro to Improv Drop-In

Come try improv comedy at a Free Drop In during our Pride Celebration! Mettlesome is offering a free 60 min drop-in where an experienced Mettlesome teacher or coach will guide you through a fun, low pressure practice. This drop-in is intended for members of our community who identify as LGBTQIA.

Date: Saturday, June 10th 3pm – 4pm

Location: Mettlesome 800 Taylor Street, Suite 9-156 Durham

Pride Day

Celebrate Pride with us at Apex Farmers Market! Music, Family activities, and vendor promotions to celebrate Pride month!

Date: Saturday, June 10th 9am – 12pm

Location: Apex Farmers Market 1479 Beaver Creek Commons Dr. Apex

2023 Annual Apex Pride Festival

This fabulous annual Apex Pride Festival is family oriented, free event with over 100 artists, vendors, and organizations represented. Including a food truck rodeo, kid & teen activities, and live music & entertainment all day!

Date: Saturday, June 10th 11am – 5pm

Location: Apex Town Hall 73 Hunter St., Apex

Orgullo Latinx Pride

Celebrate Latinx Pride! Come out for local food trucks; drag shows, music, and crafts for the kids. This is a space to celebrate and share the diverse cultures, identities, and experiences of the local Latinx LGBTQ community.

Date: Saturday, June 10th 5pm – 9pm

Location: Carrboro Town Commons 301 West Main Street Carrboro

June 15th

Spaces for Queer Joy Panel Discussion

Join Raleigh Pride and CAM Raleigh for a special conversation discussing the history of Queer nightlife spaces in Raleigh. Hear from local DJs and event producers on why these spaces need to be preserved.

Date: Thursday, June 15th 6pm – 8pm

Location: CAM Raleigh 409 W. Martin Street Raleigh

June 16th

The House of Coxx: It’s Funny, Girl! A Comedy Variety Show

the House of Coxx for a fast-paced, drag-fueled night of social justice comedy rooted in gender play and playing gender. $1 of your ticket purchase will be donated to the LGBTQ Center of Durham.

Date: Friday, June 16th 8pm

Location: Carolina Theatre 309 W Morgan St Durham

June 17th

Raleigh Pride – Wine Tasting

Join us for a colorful Wine Tasting experience, where we’ll sip on 6 to 7 exquisite wines, each adorned with a rainbow theme. Indulge in light snacks, revel in our pride-themed atmosphere, and support the LGBT Center of Raleigh.

Date: Saturday, June 17th 7:30pm-9pm

Location: Towerview Page Creek 4804 Page Creek Ln., RTP

Pride Market + Drag Show!

Join Urban Pothos Houseplant Shop & Hartwell Raleigh for a day of fun celebrating Pride and benefitting the LGBT Center of Raleigh. With Local Vendors, Family-Friendly Drag Shows, and more, a portion of proceeds will be donated to the LGBT Center of Raleigh.

Date: Saturday, June 17th 12pm-4pm

Location: Hartwell Raleigh 620 W. South St., Raleigh

Pride Drag Show

Enjoy a free Pride Month Drag Show where $1 from every drink sold will be donated to the LGBTQ Center of Durham! RSVP on The Glass Jug Eventbrite so they can plan accordantly.

Date: Saturday, June 17th 8:00pm

Location: The Glass Jug Downtown 545 Foster St, Ste 10 Durham

June 18th

RuPaul’s Drag Race Werq The World Tour 2023

A RuPaul’s Drag Show is the World’s Largest Drag Production. Buy your tickets now on DPAC’s website. Must be 18+ to attend.

Date: Sunday, June 18th 8pm

Location: DPAC 123 Vivian Street, Durham

PRIDE Family Swim!

Celebrate PRIDE with us! LGBTQ+ adults and families and allies are all welcome. You must register in advance. Swimmers 15yrs and under will need to pass a swim test prior to getting into the pool.

Date: Sunday, June 18th 8pm

Location: Jewish for Good Health & Wellness Center 1937 W Cornwallis Rd, Durham

Tea Dance: Divas and Daddies

The Accordion Club in Downtown Durham is hosting The Pink Triangle’s very first Tea Dance. Have a drink with friends and dance to some divas. There will be a couple of drag performances too!

Date: Sunday, June 18th 2pm-8pm

Location: Accordion Club — Outside 316 W Geer St Durham

June 24th

Out! Raleigh Pride 2023

Come celebrate Pride Month with the LGBT Center of Raleigh during their Out! Raleigh Pride event in Downtown Raleigh!

Date: Saturday, June 24th 11am-6pm

Location: Downtown Raleigh Fayetteville St. Raleigh

The Conjure Pride Party!!

Let’s celebrate being Loud, Proud, and Loved. $10-20 sliding scale at the door. **Non POC are encouraged to pay more** Doors open at 9:30pm and show begins at 10pm.

Date: Saturday, June 24th 10pm-2am

Location: the Pinhook 117 W Main St, Durham

June 25th

PRIDE Sensory Swim

Members and guests with autism and other sensory needs and their families are invited to join us for sensory-friendly swim times each month this summer, with low capacity, no spray features, and lifeguard whistles used in emergencies only.

Date: Sunday, June 25th 6pm-8pm

Location: Jewish for Good Health & Wellness Center 1937 W Cornwallis Rd, Durham

June 30th

Pride Food Truck Rodeo & Dance Party

There will be food, dance and frolicking on the lawn! Special Guests, Music with WXYC UNC-Chapel Hill, and a Drag Queen Show. Grab your friends, and come on out!

Date: Friday, June 30th 5pm-8pm

Location: Carrboro Town Commons 301 West Main St. Carrboro

Pride Piper Walk

Join local officials and the Bulltown Strutters, a New Orleans-Style Parade and Stage Band, to help roll the “Rainbow Ram” down Weaver Street from the Century Center to Town Commons for the Pride Food Truck Rodeo & Dance Party.

Date: Friday, June 30th 4:30pm

Location: Carrboro Century Center 100 North Greensboro St. Carrboro

LGBTQ+ Friendly Businesses

AR Workshop Durham

Our charming boutique studio offers hands-on craft classes, group activities, private parties, and a curated selection of gifts and on-trend home decor. We would love to host a a pride event for any group!

Instagram @arworkshopdurham Facebook @AR Workshop Durham

Blawsome Flower Farm

Come celebrate PRIDE Month (which we celebrate 365) with us. Blawsome Flower Farm is a small, sustainably operated flower farm that would use the beauty of fresh flowers to lift up the community, while simultaneous challenging harmful stereotypes about what it means to live and work with a disability.

Instagram @beautiful.blawesome Facebook @beautifulblawesome

🐂Blend of Soul

We are Margo and Kiera and we make up the vibrant, soul-centered female love duo, Blend of Soul! We are a black owned cold-pressed juice company based out of Durham, NC inspired by the love that we have for making our community healthier!

Instagram @blendofsoulnc Facebook @Blend of Soul

Chalfant Photos

We are a disabled/LGBTQ-owned photography business that offers a safe space to every family, couple and person in Bull City. We want our clients to feel comfortable + accommodated when they take pictures with us. We’ll be taking pictures at the “Pre-Pride Divas Brunch,” on Sat., June 24 @ Young Hearts Distillery in Downtown Raleigh.

Instagram @chalfantphotos Facebook @chalfantphotos

Counting Every Color

I am a queer woman crafter, and I sell practical crafts and jewelry! I love rainbows and sparkles, and I primarily work in epoxy resin. I’ve made earrings, necklaces, barrettes, figurines, ring holders, license plate covers, bottle corks, pens, pet tags, and even lights with resin! You can find me at my website: www.etsy.com/shop/countingeverycolor or at my Instagram.

Instagram @countingeverycolor

Durham Dog Training Center

We help you train your dog to live with ease in a human world. With Positive Reinforcement dog training, including classes for you and your dog, private sessions, and Day School, Durham Dog Training Center is the perfect place for your dogs.

Instagram @durhamdogtrainingcenter Facebook @joannethedoglady

H2O Hair Salon And Spa

We are a full beauty bar, LGBTQ+ Friendly salon, Bilingual, Small business and latinX owned. Located in the hearth of Downtown Durham, NC. We offer luxury self-care non-gender specific services in hair, nails, tanning, full body waxing, lash extensions, makeup, and facials.

Instagram @h2ohairsalonandspa Facebook @h2ohairsalonandspa

Honeypress

Honeypress is a stationery store based in Boxyard RTP; we strive to create a space for culturally and racially diverse artists, especially People of Color and those in our local community. We are allies and members of the LGBTQIA+ community and proudly carry our Pride products year-round.

Instagram @honeypress.nc Facebook @honeypress.nc

Keep Durham Dirty

Dirtydurham is dedicated to reclaiming the gritty image of Durham those who are proud of his rough edges, because that roughness has created a unique and diverse culture. We hope the Bull City always stays a little different, a little funky, and of course a little dirty.

Instagram @DirtyDurhamofficial Facebook @keepdurhamdirty

Nailed It DIY Studio Durham

Nailed It DIY is the ULTIMATE DIY experience! We teach, you create. Saturday, June 10th from 5 – 7pm we are hosting a DIY & Drag Fundraising event! This family-friendly event is BYOB and A portion of the event’s sales will be donated to the LGBTQ Center of Durham.

Instagram @naileditdurham Facebook @naileditdurham

Show & Tell Concept Shop

During Pride Season, customers can shop our 2023 Pride Collection featuring limited edition apparel and accessories IRL at Triangle Pop-Up events on June 3rd and 17th and online on our Pride page at ShowandTellOakland.com.

Instagram @showtelloakland Facebook @ShowAndTellConceptShop

The Mad Popper

The Mad Popper is a recognized Safe Space. All are welcome! We have a rainbow array of colors/flavors of gourmet popcorn to mix together and enjoy. Celebrate Pride Month with our colorful confetti popcorn!

Instagram @themadpopperdurham Facebook @Themadpopper

LGBTQIA+ Resources in Durham

LGBTQ+ Youth Center

The LGBTQ+ Youth Center within the LGBTQ Center of Durham serves youth ages 12-24 through programming, drop-in space, and events. The Youth Center is open to conversations with like minded organizations and educational spaces seeking a deeper understanding of the intersectional needs of queer youth.

Instagram: @queeryouthdurham Facebook: @queeryouthdurham

Project F.A.M.

Project FAM (Folks Aiming for More) prioritizes the needs of Transgender Womxn and Femmes of Color and all Queer and Trans BIPOC folks. We know that if we can uplift TWOC, FOC, and QTBIPOC, then we can successfully uplift all in our community.

GRASP

The Gender Resources, Advocacy, and Support Program (GRASP) mission is to alleviate the burden of the legal, medical, and institutional systems of oppression for our transgender and gender non-conforming community members in Durham and in the greater triangle.

Contact: GRASP@lgbtqcenterofdurham.org

Housing and Therapeutic Services

The focus of housing and therapy services under Project FAM is to provide housing navigation, financial assistance, and mental health resources to LGBTQ+ adults in the Triangle in order to alleviate economic and social barriers to achieving stability and independence. We do not offer emergency housing services.

Survivor Services

The focus of survivor services under Project FAM is to meet the needs of LGBTQ+ survivors of sexual and domestic violence with a survivor centered, intentional approach in order to fill the gaps in advocacy services available to LGBTQ+ survivors in the Triangle.

Contact: advocate@lgbtqcenterofdurham.org

Friends Aging Quirkily

FAQ* is a collaborative effort to build community among LGBTQ+ folks aged 50+ in & around Durham. Partners include the LGBTQ Center of Durham, Transitions LifeCare, and the Durham Center for Senior Life (DCSL)

Contact: FAQ@lgbtqcenterofdurham.org

Transgender Experience Discussion

(TED) group meets virtually twice a month. Any transgender, gender diverse, gender fluid, non-binary person over 18 is welcome to attend.

Contact: ted@lgbtqcenterofdurham.org

Name Change Navigator

The Name Change Navigator is available via email and appointment any time, and by drop-in the second Friday of each month from 10am-2pm. Ask about name & gender corrections on documents.

Contact: namechange@lgbtqcenterofdurham.org

STI/HIV Testing

Free STI and HIV testing services will take place on the second Wednesday of every month between 4-6 PM and the second Thursday from 1 to 3pm. All testing takes place between 4-6 PM at 112 W. Main St, Floor 2, Durham. Dates for June are the 14th and the 22nd.

Support Us!

Your LGBTQ Center of Durham relies on community support to maintain a sustainable community center open to the public 7 days a week. As such we are grateful for you to show your financial support in whatever way you are able. You can make an online payment at www.lgbtqcenterofdurham.org/donate/

LGBTQIA+ Resources in Raleigh

Disability Alliance

Discussion Group designed to explore the experience(s) of being queer and disabled, and aimed towards building genuine support systems.

Triangle Plus

A group designed for HIV+ gay/bi men and their poz-friendly allies in the Triangle area. The purpose of the group is to foster support for one other by holding monthly meetings and an array of social activities. Meetings cover a variety of topics including disclosure, relationships, mental health, medical care, or whatever happens to be on your mind at that moment.

Triangle Autism Discussion Group

A group for people on the autism spectrum to come together and discuss their experiences. Both self-diagnosed and professionally diagnosed people are welcome, as are people who are questioning whether or not they might be on the spectrum. Every meeting will have a topic, such as special interests, developing social skills, sensory issues and how to deal with them, etc.

Triangle Queer Artist Collective

Collective compromising of teen and adult artists that hold regular meetings to connect and curate art within the company of other queer community members. On occasion this group will hold various artistic events open to he general public.

Triangle GBT Men’s Social

Group where male, male-ish, male-adjacent members of the LGBTQ+ community can play games, hold discussions, or just hang out. This is a safe space where your self-defined masculinity precedes any socially constructed measurement of what is and is not.

Youth & Young Adult Leadership Team

The Youth and Young Adult Leadership Team (YLT) is a group of selected youth ages 15-24 who plan and facilitate our youth/young adult programs. Team members are granted opportunities to partake in public speaking, community outreach, and leadership conferences.

Pride Flow Yoga

In partnership with Current Wellness, Pride Flow Yoga is a monthly yoga class that’s lead by a local, queer instructor. All classes are free! Attendees can mingle after class at the Wellness Bar where they serve nonalcoholic beverages and snacks for purchase.

LGBT+ Mental Health Support Group

In partnership with NAMI Wake County and NAMI North Carolina, the LGBT+ Mental Health Support Group is a bi-monthly virtual space for LGBTQ+ folks navigating their mental health journey. This program is a peer lead, free and confidential.

HIV/STI Testing Services

In partnership with Alliance of AIDS Services – Carolina, HIV/STI testing occurs weekly on Monday evenings from 5pm – 7:45pm. It is completely free and confidential and appointments are not required. Testing services also include connection to resources, counseling, and direct links to care if needed.

Give to the Center

The Center provides direct program services to the incredibly diverse community, including youth programs, SAGE Central North Carolina, HIV Testing and Counseling, and an amazing Transgender Initiative … just to name a few. You can make an online payment at www.lgbtcenterofraleigh.com/make-a-donation

Instagram: @lgbtcenterofraleigh Facebook: @lgbtcenterofraleigh

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